Disclaimer: All women are beatifiul as you are all unique. Be you, liberate yourself. My views are just my biased views.
Okay, so first of all the word ‘catfish’ is now part of the dictionary just like ‘lol’ and ‘wtf’ because of the digital revolution that has in most part taken over the world.
To all of us younger people, being a catfish is when someone usually on Instagram looks a lot better then they do in real life and this is usually due to excessive amounts of makeup and/or filters. This is not purely aimed at girls as a lot of males can also be a catfish by only taking photos when they have had a trim, got a pump from the gym & wearing the freshest fitting clothes they have.
Snapchat too, Snapchat has literally covered people’s faces with the nose of a digital dog, and put technological mascara on their eyes. I have now even seen a filter of a yellow mask that covers the whole bottom of girls faces and leaves the rest open and girls are using this in every post. How can anyone look at that and think yes she’s very very attractive, wifey material. I really just can’t come to terms with it. But again, not excluding boys at all I have seen so many boys using filters. My view on lads doing it is strong and very offensive, so I will not share it.
The main problem is there’s a lot of deception going on and people are meeting one another over social media and thinking they really like this person, they will meet and when they do there is no physical attraction from one side as the other looks totally different, physical attraction in my opinion is one of the most important aspects of a relationship or companionship.
So let me give you a little example of how it feels (it’s happened to me about 3 times now) you do what you do, you slide in them dm’s, your talking smooth, your the man. This girl your talking to, she’s semi fire, her pictures are showing this. Your getting along, same music taste, common interests, both talking deep, you think “yo this girl is sick” your like, let’s meet, I wanna see you.
You arrange to meet at maccies by pigeon park to go cinema or some shit. You walk through them doors and she’s not in there. But hold on… She fucking is. It’s that girl who looks slightly like the girl your meeting but you think “nah it can’t be lol” BUT IT FUCKING IS. What do you do? A lot of friends who have experienced the same have said they pretended they needed to go because of an emergency, I personally ride it out, as not to look like a cliche and appeal to everyone I do believe that personality is way more important then looks & it’s always chemistry over biology. You never know, this female could say one thing in a conversation that just resonates with your soul.
The message I’m trying to get across, which will not really be of great importance this is just purely my view. Why can’t we all be natural because then we will breed a generation of people who will be upfront and we will rarely get with people who we don’t want to be with, relationships will be more prosperous and there will be less fake people, less heartbreak. On the contrary, girls wear makeup usually due to insecurities that have been cause by us males, which in retrospect is disgraceful from us as a sex.
We all need to start appreciating and respecting women for what they are and not necessarily what they look like, because this whole term of ‘catfish’ could be avoided and we could all be real and get along in peace. Perfect.
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